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The Great Masters of Our Life

Right from we came into this world, we have been growing up ever since, both emotionally as well as physically. We learn how to do stuff, we learn how to talk, what to talk, then we learn how to get around everything and everyone. We learn and people as well as situations teach us. It's a two way process. These people and situations are the great masters of our life. Some are the same kind of people and situations we face, and some of them differ for different people. In this post I will talk about a few of the many great masters of out lives.

Parents

For most of us, the first person we meet after coming to this world are our parents. They nurture and take care of us. We tend to follow them and walk on the paths they lead us through. They constitute in the very basic nature that we conceive. They help us through our decisions and are always there for us.

Life

By life, I mean all the happenings and situations we face. Time makes us face the best and the worst. Dealing with these create our experiences that help us facing further situations. The life works like this and eventually makes us wiser and wiser. In life the one who is the fittest survives. We all know, it works out like this only since the evolution of life on earth.

Teachers

Teachers are the next essential forming factors of our lives after our parents. Apart from educating, they shape our thoughts. If parents are our roots then teachers are the sunlight which gives the direction to grow towards. Through their knowledge and experiences they help us and teach us to stand tall and straight through the storms of life.

Friends

Friends are the ones who are contemporary to us and thus are emotionally supportive elements of life. They remind us that we are not alone. They may be not experienced like our parents and teachers, but they exactly know and feel what we face. They are stars in a dark night who keep reminding us to not leave hope.

Enemies

Foes are as important as friends, yin and yang of our life. Enemies help us distinguish who our friends are. They put challenges and obstacles and are the troublemakers of our life. But hey! how we are supposed to know to combat any trouble if no one puts us through it. That's why enemies are important.

The list is never-ending one. But the above mentioned people and factors are the ones who shape the road of our life.

Right from we came into this world, we have been growing up ever since, both emotionally as well as physically. We learn how to do stuff...




Life is a very random phenomenon. Its entropy increases as we grow and experience the life more and more. It has no specific 'geometry' and it is too amorphous. So, here I wish to discuss one part of this random phenomenon-the two C's of life viz. Cooperation and Conflict.

Only god knows that at which point of life we will have and need to cooperate and where we have to conflict. Here, I want to clear the that the conflict I am talking about is not any kind of war, I am referring to the struggles in our life. So, now I will get back to the point. I just want to say that we ourselves are the ones who decide that we have to cooperate or conflict for our living.

I have explained my views about cooperation and help in an earlier post. (Read it here). So, here I will continue with my views on conflicts. If we have to remain in the position acquired by us and want all our rights should be ours then conflict is the way to get that, because in every sphere of life keeping quiet doesn't actually work. Not only we humans, but every creature whether small or big have to conflict for their living and for their future generations.

History is a witness that conflict has been a necessary part in everyone's life. Yes, sometimes it brings an unrest in our life but it has to be there to bring peace in the near future.

Conflict is a temporary unrest to bring a rest in our life and cooperation is something that brings satisfaction in us.

Life is a very random phenomenon. Its entropy increases as we grow and experience the life more and more. It has no specific ...


We all human beings are like creepers, all need some support from others in some way, and others too need support from us, that is, we all need cooperation. In this world it is very difficult to live without it.

Cooperation is a thing that is needed even at the smallest level of life. Imagine what will happen if all the cell organelles stop cooperating with each other. Yes, all the biological systems will stop. Then what will happen to the earth's life? In this way cooperation is so much important not just for us, but for every organism on this earth.

It is not that only human beings need cooperation, all organisms need it. For some organisms, it is the only way for survival. For example take the tiny ants, I think they are the first ones which comes in my mind when talking about cooperation. Really hats off to them. These tiny intelligent creatures do what huge creatures like us can't do. By supporting each other they search food for them, carry stuffs which are far more heavier than them and build their shelter.

Cooperation can be of many types. In my view first one is when members of a group do something to achieve the same goal. Cooperation is this case is not only doing the same work by all the members but this also can be doing different works which leads them to their unique goal. The second type may be when an individual or some individuals work for the benefit for the whole group.

Nobody is perfect in all the respects. God has not given all sorts of qualities to everyone. Therefore one must cooperate with others. There are some vacuums in the qualities and abilities of everyone. So god has given qualities in some proportions in each one only to fill this vacuum.

So I think,

Cooperation is the greatest human quality one must possess in the world of today.

We all human beings are like creepers, all need some support from others in some way, and others too need support from us, that is, we...


All of us are well known of the fact that we have come alone in this world and will surely go from here alone. But if god has blessed us life then we have to live it. But living a life solitarily is too difficult. So along with life god also gifts us some relations.

When we are born, our first relation establishes with our parents and our whole family. We do not have to make these relations, god makes these relations. We should be thankful to god that he has done so much for us before our birth !!! That is, he has decided that who will be our parents and our family.

When we grow and begin to interact with the outer world, that is, a world outside the family sphere, some relations establish or we have to establish some relations, like friends, teachers, lovers and so on... These relations provide us a company, a support and many things for living our life.

There are some relations which we do not want to make. Most of us will never like to make enemies. This is the only relation which corrodes us. Enemies never support us, they always have a malignant effect on us .In this way we have two types of enemies, first those whom we can directly call our enemies and second one are those who remain hidden to us, become our friends and in our absence do harm to us.

There are different types of feelings associated with different relations, and because we cannot define each feeling, we cannot name each relation too.

Relations are colourful as well as dark sides of life. Some relations are just a burden for us which we do not want to unload. Some relations break in some circumstances of life. In these situations the though the relation is ended, the feelings associated with it remains with us, and these feelings become a burden for us.

But really relations are relations. They will remain with us as long as we live in this world. So,

Enjoy all relations, they teach us many things and grow our experience...

All of us are well known of the fact that we have come alone in this world and will surely go from here alone. But if god has blessed us...