Mind Mirror

A very bitter reality of human behavior is prejudice, the act of forming an unfavourable opinion without knowing the actuality.

It is the general tendency of we human beings to judge by one's outer appearance, or by learning the opinions formed by others. But god has given all of us our wit and will power, so that we can judge everything and we don't have to depend upon others to let them or their thoughts dominate on us. But we humans are so much lazy that we don't want to unwrap these two precious god gifts.

This prejudice can let one miss the opportunity to know about someone about whom he deserves to know. Sometimes before knowing someone we form a wrong opinion about him and do not come in contact with him. So we miss a golden chance to know something new, new thoughts, and many other new things.

Another effect of this prejudice is that it hurts that person about whom the wrong impression is being formed. The person sometimes feel cut-off from everyone. So

One should always think over again and again before forming an impression about anybody.

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Everyone of us need something for living our life. Need is the necessary property for everyone of us. We are not complete without needs. This is because time to time we require things essential to continue our daily lives as well as to live our life.

Before god has made us, he has made the necessary things that will be needed by us and by all living beings. God has not left us empty handed, he has given us not only handful, but also earth full of resources. So, isn’t it our sole responsibility to use it wisely and protect it? But no, human beings, whom I consider the most greedy organism god has ever made, think that resources are only for use, not for protection. We use this precious gift of god like anything, without thinking of the future consequences.

Well this was one aspect of this. If we take examples from our daily lives, when we start getting something to meet our needs, slowly a feeling develops in us called greed. We humans have the tendency to get more and more. We do not ever get satisfied with what we have.

We see each other and compare if we have all the things someone else has. If not then a void called greed develops in our mind which if not get filled will make our mind unstable.

These all are because of only one thing, a reaction which I have termed, a humochemical reaction: Need -> Greed. Now, we not only require to meet our needs but to meet our greeds too.

Need has end, but greed has none.

The only way to recover from this feeling is to make our mind to follow these followings steps of humochemical reactions:

Step I : Need <-> Greed
Step II: Need <- blockquote="" greed="">
First of all we have to make our mind to reverse this change in its state, and then we have to completely reverse it. It is not so easy, but it is our mind only which can control everything, and every situation.

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When human beings start maturing, they start making a goal, an aim or an objective in their mind which they want to complete. But this is not so easy because to complete one whole goal, we have to plan accordingly first to complete small goals and in our way we may...no we will get many hurdles.

The first and most important of all hurdles is distraction. Concentration or paying your full attention to one particular work, which can lead you to your goal, you are doing at a particular instant is the most principle to achieve success. And this hurdle about which I am talking about takes you off the track. Your life is just like a race track and your aim is to complete it. And yes, like other races you have competition too. Your main goal is to complete the race first to achieve success. I am talking about the competition not you and other people like you, but between you and your weaknesses. Your distraction can be one of your major weaknesses.

Now if I talk about the race which is between you and other people, everybody wants to win the race because the everyone's aim is to get success in anyway. So in this process some are honest and some may adopt inappropriate ways. There are two ways of winning this kinda race, one is to win it on your own strength and the other, which is the inappropriate way, is to distract you, so that your mind diverts off the tract.

In your life you cannot recognize this kinda people. So it is better to make yourself and your mind firmly concentrated to your goal. Because

Prevention is better than cure.

Sometimes, you cannot get even a single chance to recover what you lost only due to this distraction. So beware !!!

Here I have referred Time as "Sand" because its property is just like sand ... none can retain these in one's hand, it gradually slips away. So its very important and necessary to wisely use it before it goes away. It is truly said that "Time and Tide waits for none", if left wasted, it leaves people remorseful for wasting it.
Time is not a thing or material ... it is i think just a feeling which touches us and goes away every moment ... moment which is marked by the end of the other one. Nobody can stop it, nobody can can bring it back. The time which has gone is gone.
The three divisions of time ever made by humans are:
Past, Present and the Future.
Past is like a published book in which you cannot do any modification, Future is like a blank paper in which nothing is there, it is a sort of void and last but not at all the least is the PRESENT, these are the papers which are in our hands right now. We can modify it, make it in our own style and many thing can be done according to your wish. We cannot do anything for the mistakes done in the past, but many things can be done so that it never repeats in the future. These all things can be done in the present only.
So,

Be the good author of the book of present time, write it in your own way, keeping in mind about the errors in the past edition...

End is that necessary point which will definitely come and sometimes necessary also. In our day to day life, we come across many types of "ends", which may either be joyous or mournful. Here are two situations where we face "ends"...

There are many kind of people in this world, some like to do work, some are forced and some are stuck to their beds by the adhesive of laziness. Here I am going to tell about a feeling of the people who like and love working. Work can be of many kind, it should not be considered small or big. Good work of any kind contribute to the development of the society. So work is work. It should be done with dedication, so that once it is initiated, it can be finished perfectly, otherwise where goes the aim of doing that work? Now, I will talk about that point where the work is going to end. This point is associated with two types of feelings, first, the joy of completion and the second, the grief of ending. People who like working always feel upset when the particular work ends. So,

The ending of some work gives pain. But where the work itself gives pain, the ending gives relief.

Man is Mortal, they have to face their end some day. Now, everybody is aware of this fact, but fear the death. This means that they aren't able to accept this truth of life. But everybody wants that their end should be peaceful. When one approaches to his or her end, one realises that the life after death is peaceful that that of before. Here the end gives eternal joy, which is incomparable with any other kind of joy in this whole world. But when one comes to know that one's end is going to be very drastic, one does not ever wish to die. One starts begging for life.

In this way there are many ends and many of them we don't know. We face these daily, in each and every moment, but we do not feel it. Every new moment is associated with end of the other one. So end is everlasting,

Everything can end but end never ends...

End is the rule of the Universe, it is inevitable...

In the world of today happiness has become a thing which is very difficult to find. People have become so self-centric that they do not bother to give and even share some happiness. People live in the world of theirs.

The life is like a whole range of mountains. It is very difficult to cross it without being happy. The reason is simple. We face difficulties in life and to cope with it we need courage and self confidence. Now think if we are sad and gloomy, how can we develop these essential things to cope with the difficulties of life. Therefore,

Happiness is the seed of the plant of every essential things needed to lead the life.

We human beings are blessed with an important component of happiness known as smile. A smile does a lot of things in life. It can sometimes make things possible which is never thought to be possible. It is the key to enter the heart of a person. It can sometimes pierce someone's 'stone like' heart.