Pray the Almighty

3/21/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

When we find ourself in difficulties with nobody around us then the only support left to us is the god. The god on whom we trust that he will surely help us when we are in need of it. And according to our believe, the medium for calling the god is prayer. Most of us pray to the god when we are in difficulties, and when we get rid out of that we almost forget the him. This implies that most of us are selfish. We call the god when we need him and throws him out of our mind when the task is over. But have you ever thought that why he helps us again and again in spite of knowing that we will forget him? This is because he forgives us every time, he doesn't want anything in exchange. But things cannot go on like this. How can we be so ignorant? We all must be thankful to the god for everything, the clothes we wear, the home we live in, the food we eat and the biggest thing, the life he has given to us which is the most precious gift from him.

If we thank him when we get rid of difficulties and for all the things we have then he will surely bless us. We all need blessings because it gives us the energy to fight difficulties and face every challenge of life.

Now the question comes, what to pray to the god? We should not pray him to get rid of difficulties, we should always want the power to fight with it. This is because these difficulties are challenges which god himself put in our lives to grow ourself, our experience, our power. And one thing we must keep in our mind that we should not pray for ourself only, his other creatures also need blessings. So,

Do not be selfish and pray to him in every situation of life and for others also.

When we find ourself in difficulties with nobody around us then the only support left to us is the god. The god on whom we trust that he...

Life - A Hit and Trial

3/14/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

In your life you want many things and you try to achieve this, some of these you get and some you do not. Have you ever thought that why this happens, this is because this is one of the rules of life. You try and try to get what you want, but not every time you get it.

Life is a hit and trial, you do not know what will happen next, if you did know then everything would have become so much easy for you. So in many situations of life, you have just to take the step of trying, without knowing whether you that you will be successful in that attempt or not.

Many people think that what they try to achieve will surely be achieved by them, and say that this is their confidence. But in my opinion this is not at all confidence, this is something a step ahead of this, that is, over-confidence.

Some of us just settle down being tired after making one or two or some tries. They feel that they have no more energy, whether physical or mental, to make further attempts. Actually they do not understand that life has to go on, and if they do no more tries then, then how will their lives go on. Their lives will be like blank book in which you cannot find anything other than emptiness.

Failing in your trial doesn't mean that you will not attempt that try again.

So go on and make tries as much as you can make to achieve what you need to make your life beautiful, without even thinking about the result and the further attempts you have to make if you are not successful.

In your life you want many things and you try to achieve this, some of these you get and some you do not. Have you ever thought that why thi...

Simply be Simple

3/11/2010 Shayoni Majumder 2 Comments

Today the world has become very materialistic. It believes in show off. On everybody's face there is a mask of pretentiousness. Everyone has become ostentatious. There has come a bombast in everyone's nature. There is perhaps no reality, no originality left in this world.

The entire human race is going in a wrong direction. For example the common people are trying to imitate the celebrities and social elites, everybody has become a crazy fashion streak, and so on..... Nobody is stopping himself for a moment to think that is it wrong or right and where it can lead them to.

I think that this race to show off will never end. The more we run behind it, more it will go far from us. This is simply a maze in which if once trapped, it is very difficult to come out of it.

So it is better to keep oneself out of its reach. We human beings are very temptational. But this task is not so impossible.

Be simple.....simplicity has its own joy.

I am not against any good change in personality, but i think it is not right to show what you are not. Simply be what you are.

Some situations come in life where you have to pretend, this is an exceptional case when you are in some kind of obligation. Otherwise it is wise to be simple. So, choose if you want to be wise or not.

Today the world has become very materialistic. It believes in show off. On everybody's face there is a mask of pretentiousness. Everyone...

Competition

3/09/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

We human have the general tendency to be unique in some way. Some show this tendency and some do not. But we are not alone in this world. All want to attain some unique position, but it is not possible for everybody. So there is a heavy competition in every field of life. There is some sort of race everywhere and every in moment of life.But is this tendency of competition good for us? What can this competitive nature lead us to?

Competition is both good and bad for us. It is good because it helps us to move forward in our life. It provides with internal growth.

Iron on beating only attain a specific desired shape.

It helps us to grow our experiences, because it shows us many ups and downs of life. We face difficulties, and try to get out of this. Int this we we grow our skills too.Now let me focus on the other aspect too. Competition is good for us upto some specific extent. But when the desire to gain more and more grows, our competitive nature also grows. We become more and more ferocious. The tendency destruction grows more than that of creation. We do anything to achieve a particular position that we want. Ultimately this leads us to destruction.

Hence, all I can say is

Be competitive, but by remaining in the limits of
goodness.

We human have the general tendency to be unique in some way. Some show this tendency and some do not. But we are not alone in this world. Al...

What you can't get

3/05/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

Think of a life in which you have all the things which you want. Now answer yourself why you have to think it only, cannot it really happen!!! Actually you know the answer that it cannot happen, because you are aware of the fact that nobody in this world has got everything.

Human beings have longing dreams to get everything in their lives. But they get depressed when they do not get it. Knowing a fact is one thing and accepting it is other. Everybody knows that they cannot get what they want, but cannot accept this reality of life.

Sometimes we do not get what we deserve. This hurts us the most. This is because life is not so easy going, not so smooth. Actually if we get everything then life will be not like life. Every sorrow brings us a happiness. Do not think that god has snatched something from you, if you do not get something god gives you some other thing instead, only the thing is needed is to look around.

So be happy with what you have, because who can say that what you have right now you cannot be with that later also.

Think of a life in which you have all the things which you want. Now answer yourself why you have to think it only, cannot it really ha...

Desire

3/03/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Desire.........I think is the spark emerged in our mind which leads us to that destination of life where we wish we should be. People say that some desires are good, some are bad......... but I don't think so. Rather I think that some desires lead us to good destination........ and some to that destination where we must not be. Yes.......desires decide our destination. As we all are humans and all of us know we have unending desires and of course desires cannot be stopped from coming in our mind. So according to me...... these must be 'filtered'. We should allow only those desires to dominate our mind which we think is necessary to fulfill our dreams....... dreams which when are fulfilled are good for us. We should immediately block those desires which is not good at all, which can even cause harm to us or anybody else. And finally, some desires are partially good. We should allow only that part which is good. The desires allowed should be good for us, our well being and above all for the well being of the whole mankind.

If the spark is produced in the firewood it will serve good purposes like providing warmth, cooking, etc. And if it is produced to fire a house, it will damn sure do a lot of destruction......

Desire.........I think is the spark emerged in our mind which leads us to that destination of life where we wish we should be. People say th...