We live in a city called life which gives us roads to walk and destination to go. We either succeed in reaching there or we fail. Failure is an invincible thing, you cannot skip it or overpower it. This is a sure thing to come if you have goals to fulfil. Therefore, you must always expect it to come so as to lessen your fear of it. Remember, failure is not that bad, it only proves that you are a human being who tried.

We can fail at many things – sticking to the New Year resolution, overcoming an addiction, completing career goals, getting good grades, relationships, a long list goes on like this. Failure at most of the times induces negativity in us. Our hopes slowly start fading as does our ability to get over it and take the next step. We start blaming us or others because of whom we failed.


Remember, there is an opportunity whether small or big every time you fail and in all of your setbacks. Your perspective of seeing a failure decides if you see that opportunity. If success creates a good leader then failure creates a good guide. If you cannot tell others the right path, you can always tell them which path not to go. Now you know what not to do if you want to succeed the next time. A failure only draws you near success every time it happens. This makes failure a very necessary part of life.

To move on with your life and find positivity, firstly you must admit and accept the failure. Sometimes you become so lost in your purpose that you find it hard to believe that you failed. You think that you tried so hard that it is unacceptable to fail. But your growth starts with accepting that you were unable to succeed in you purpose.

You are not alone who failed. Lots of people in this world who tried to achieve anything failed at least once. You can always find comfort in this fact. You can find lots and lots of examples of such people. Like that if you fail try to be an example.

Even after failure, try not to give up ever. If you are determined in achieving something, you will eventually find a way. Hope should be the only thing in your life that should keep you alive. Just follow you mission and you purpose. Your success is waiting somewhere for you and failures are just roadblocks. It is your choice whether you want to meet it or not.

In life we all need company to keep us occupied and to share our world. Friends are an essential factor in our mental growth. When we are kids they decide what to play, when we are teens they shape our thoughts, when we are adults they become a partner in our actions. In any way they keep us occupied and prevent us from being lonely especially in difficult times. As we grow our choice of friends change. First quantity would be a factor and then later on quality will start making influence in our choices.

Now, we always tend to focus on having good friends, friends who will support us through ups and downs. We are always preoccupied with having friends rather than being one, a good one. If we try to care about being a good person for someone else, just think how the world can change. Instead of keeping expectation from others why not be an example of a good friend.


Remember, a good friend always keeps his or her company motivated. He or she should always be supportive in their friends’ good motives and guide them to choose the right path. People often tend to deviate towards wrong path, and that is where a good friend becomes a strong wall to keep their friend away from going there.

For being a motivational friend you should first focus on being a good person. You should keep your life as positive as possible so that it can have a good influence over people in your lives. People subconsciously notice your behavior and attitude towards various situations of life. Whenever you are in a presence of a friend, keep them inspired through your speech and action.

Be a person on whom your friend can trust and do not be judgmental about your friend. Respect is always earned, show respect to everyone in your friend circle and in return they too will respect you. Be a company with whom your friends can enjoy and talk their heart out. Loyalty matters a lot in friendship, maintain loyalty with your friends, keep their secret a secret if they want it to because there is no remedy of a broken trust.

If you are to be a supportive stem to your friend, learn the art of listening and be patient with it. Try to understand their point of view. After that ask them what help they need and tell them that you are there for them and the extent to which you can help. You should always keep a good communication to make your friends feel that they are being heard.

If you want to have good friends, you should be one first. Help each other to fulfil a good purpose. Use your experience to teach one another in their missions. Keep your friends morally clean, warn them if they are going in any wrong direction. Always keep giving advises and suggestions to be positive in their lives.