Relationships

2/14/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

All of us are well known of the fact that we have come alone in this world and will surely go from here alone. But if god has blessed us life then we have to live it. But living a life solitarily is too difficult. So along with life god also gifts us some relations.

When we are born, our first relation establishes with our parents and our whole family. We do not have to make these relations, god makes these relations. We should be thankful to god that he has done so much for us before our birth !!! That is, he has decided that who will be our parents and our family.

When we grow and begin to interact with the outer world, that is, a world outside the family sphere, some relations establish or we have to establish some relations, like friends, teachers, lovers and so on... These relations provide us a company, a support and many things for living our life.

There are some relations which we do not want to make. Most of us will never like to make enemies. This is the only relation which corrodes us. Enemies never support us, they always have a malignant effect on us .In this way we have two types of enemies, first those whom we can directly call our enemies and second one are those who remain hidden to us, become our friends and in our absence do harm to us.

There are different types of feelings associated with different relations, and because we cannot define each feeling, we cannot name each relation too.

Relations are colourful as well as dark sides of life. Some relations are just a burden for us which we do not want to unload. Some relations break in some circumstances of life. In these situations the though the relation is ended, the feelings associated with it remains with us, and these feelings become a burden for us.

But really relations are relations. They will remain with us as long as we live in this world. So,

Enjoy all relations, they teach us many things and grow our experience...

All of us are well known of the fact that we have come alone in this world and will surely go from here alone. But if god has blessed us...