Need and time for Resolutions

12/31/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

Sometimes I think that why people make so many resolutions often on special occasions, why not at any time when it is needed to do so. Human beings are those who make mistakes, and who don't make any mistake is the one and only god, and humans can never be god. Moreover a true human being is one who amends his mistakes and go ahead in the life trying hard not to repeat it. And this process of amending is in my opinion nothing else but resolution.

Now the question comes when to make new resolutions. I think many people make new resolutions on new occasions because they consider that occasion a starting point of a new phase of the life. This question has arisen in my mind only because in this last day of the year not only my nears and dears but the people who are strangers to me are making not one, not two but a list of resolutions.

Now the turn is mine. I think that 

Any point of life can be a new phase of life...

This is because we can make some or other mistake at ant point of time, and resolution is a must when you realize it.

So......I am eager to know what is your new year resolution/s?

Sometimes I think that why people make so many resolutions often on special occasions, why not at any time when it is needed to do so...

Searching the Scattered Bits

10/27/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

Many times of our lives we loss many things...and many people which and who are very near to us...near to our heart. Sometimes intentionally and sometimes not, this very pinching and pain giving situation does come.

When caught in this web, people become a fish out of water, dying and searching for at least a drop of water which is equivalent to a small bit of happiness for people in their lives.

Many a times we know that the things...or people many never come back, but this doesn't mean that this will lead us to lose the hope...for hope is the basic foundation leading us to search whatever is lost.

On the other side of it, we have to make ourselves understand the fact that we came in this world alone and will depart from her taking nothing or nobody along us. Gain or loss is the part and parcel our lives, it's wholly a worldly matter.

We may not get what we have lost but lost can be compensated by other means.

It depends wholly on us...to use which medicine to cure the particular sort of wound in our heart.

Many times of our lives we loss many things...and many people which and who are very near to us...near to our heart. Sometimes intent...

The Nomad Soul

10/09/2010 Shayoni Majumder 3 Comments

Our soul is as important to us as the roots of a tree is important to it. Without it we are just...just physical beings...just worldly materials like any other non-living thing.

This is because our body is limited to places where we are capable to move, but soul...soul has limitations bounded to infinity. It is free to roam anywhere, places it itself doesn't know. Only because of our own soul, which nobody of us have seen ever, we are living ones, free to think, free in our own selves.

We haven't seen how soul is like, but at least we know that it exists, somewhere within us. It is the main driving force and the fueling source to our body. We need to satisfy the basic needs, like, food, water, air, etc., just to make the soul remain in our body, because it is too volatile.

But because of many worldly matters, we sometimes feel that out soul, is out of control and that out physical being is caught in the web of worldly matters. But as we make our soul to be more and more free, we make ourselves more and more free to think by making the gate of our mind open. This leads our soul to the sacred path whose destination is God, the eternal one. Really,

The soul is a true wanderer.

Our soul is as important to us as the roots of a tree is important to it. Without it we are just...just physical beings...just worldly...

Solitude

9/30/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

All of us know that the world is covered with crowd of people, but this doesn't means that we couldn't be alone. Many a times we feel alone even in this heavy crowd of people. This brings us Solitude.

Sometimes we need this because we want an absolute silence, a vacuum to think over on some matter which we cannot do when we're having people around. This solitude gives us a space in which we are apart from the crowd and helps us to concentrate on those matters which need importance in our life. That's why our mind need this void to let it refresh. It does the work of fueling it up which tends to get exhausted in the course of daily routines of life.

But sometimes this solitude is unwanted, it comes without any warning and sometimes unnoticed by us. This brings us abominable lull. This silence seem to break us, our mind, our strength. In this situation we become a fish out of water, trying to get out of the situation.

But the fact is everything depends on us, on the way we think. If we think that we are alone then nobody can help us to pull out of the situation. But if we think that we cannot be alone in any way then who the hell has the dare to make us feel alone???

All of us know that the world is covered with crowd of people, but this doesn't means that we couldn't be alone. Many a times we fee...

The Dawn Light

9/27/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

I am here neither to talk about any physical phenomena regarding light nor any geographical phenomena regarding the change of day or night. I will just share my thoughts on how I consider the light...not an ordinary one...a special one - the Dawn Light.

The dawn light carries very special meaning to me. It is a very good source of inspiration in the very beginning of the day. Only one has to change the point of view and one can feel encouraged. It comes through the darkness, breaking the darkness of the devil dark, welcoming the dawn. It is not just a very beautiful sight to see but also a far more beautiful moment to feel.

We are not the only ones who feel the freshness of the fresh light but the nature too likes it and expresses her joy by blowing the fresh breeze which enhance our ectacy.

Really, god has made such arrangements for all of us such that we can feel inspired from this special light and can start our day-to-day life. It inspires us to fight with all our snags and to make our life smooth through all the instabilities. Remember

A small ray of sunlight is enough to break the whole darkness of the night...

I am here neither to talk about any physical phenomena regarding light nor any geographical phenomena regarding the change of day or ...

Imagination...a Power Beyond Imagination

9/26/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

First of all I would like to ask you to think of a world in which nobody has ever imagined anything...think. Knowingly or unknowingly you are also imagining something. Yeah...this is imagination. There are some things in this world which is not possible to define exactly what is it, and imagination is one of the terms. If it has, I am not able to imagine it now.

If you have imagined that kind of world...can you see anything around, which is like that of today's world. Like you all I am also trying to imagine that kinda world. And I do not see anything, just humans and animals roaming here and there and doing nothing, because to do something, one has to even imagine how to start it. I think in this way, all the species would have to end very soon.

So you can imagine how the world will be without imagination...

Think if the human beings never imagined of anything and any development weren't there, the conclusions would be like, fire, electricity, etc. never invented because I can see that world (which I have mentioned above) in which Faraday is sitting ideally, Newton is sleeping under the Apple tree looking at the falling apples as everybody looks at it and so on...

So what are you all waiting for???

Do the simple mental exercise of imagining about something every moment...once you will start it, you will do it as long as that time which is beyond your imagination...

First of all I would like to ask you to think of a world in which nobody has ever imagined anything...think. Knowingly or unknowingly you...

Prejudice

9/01/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

A very bitter reality of human behavior is prejudice, the act of forming an unfavourable opinion without knowing the actuality.


It is the general tendency of we human beings to judge by one's outer appearance, or by learning the opinions formed by others. But god has given all of us our wit and will power, so that we can judge everything and we don't have to depend upon others to let them or their thoughts dominate on us. But we humans are so much lazy that we don't want to unwrap these two precious god gifts.


This prejudice can let one miss the opportunity to know about someone about whom he deserves to know. Sometimes before knowing someone we form a wrong opinion about him and do not come in contact with him. So we  miss a golden chance to know something new, new thoughts, and many other new things.


Another effect of this prejudice is that it hurts that person about whom the wrong impression is being formed. The person sometimes feel cut-off from everyone. So

One should always think over again and again before forming an impression about anybody.

A very bitter reality of human behavior is prejudice, the act of forming an unfavourable opinion without knowing the actuality. It is the...

A Humochemical Reaction: Need->Greed

7/17/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

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Everyone of us need something for living our life. Need is the necessary property for everyone of us. We are not complete without needs. This is because time to time we require things essential to continue our daily lives as well as to live our life.

Before god has made us, he has made the necessary things that will be needed by us and by all living beings. God has not left us empty handed, he has given us not only handful, but also earth full of resources. So, isn’t it our sole responsibility to use it wisely and protect it? But no, human beings, whom I consider the most greedy organism god has ever made, think that resources are only for use, not for protection. We use this precious gift of god like anything, without thinking of the future consequences.

Well this was one aspect of this. If we take examples from our daily lives, when we start getting something to meet our needs, slowly a feeling develops in us called greed. We humans have the tendency to get more and more. We do not ever get satisfied with what we have.

We see each other and compare if we have all the things someone else has. If not then a void called greed develops in our mind which if not get filled will make our mind unstable.

These all are because of only one thing, a reaction which I have termed, a humochemical reaction: Need -> Greed. Now, we not only require to meet our needs but to meet our greeds too.

Need has end, but greed has none.

The only way to recover from this feeling is to make our mind to follow these followings steps of humochemical reactions:

Step I : Need <-> Greed
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First of all we have to make our mind to reverse this change in its state, and then we have to completely reverse it. It is not so easy, but it is our mind only which can control everything, and every situation.

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Why Pay Attention to Distractions

6/28/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

When human beings start maturing, they start making a goal, an aim or an objective in their mind which they want to complete. But this is not so easy because to complete one whole goal, we have to plan accordingly first to complete small goals and in our way we may...no we will get many hurdles.

The first and most important of all hurdles is distraction. Concentration or paying your full attention to one particular work, which can lead you to your goal, you are doing at a particular instant is the most principle to achieve success. And this hurdle about which I am talking about takes you off the track. Your life is just like a race track and your aim is to complete it. And yes, like other races you have competition too. Your main goal is to complete the race first to achieve success. I am talking about the competition not you and other people like you, but between you and your weaknesses. Your distraction can be one of your major weaknesses.

Now if I talk about the race which is between you and other people, everybody wants to win the race because the everyone's aim is to get success in anyway. So in this process some are honest and some may adopt inappropriate ways. There are two ways of winning this kinda race, one is to win it on your own strength and the other, which is the inappropriate way, is to distract you, so that your mind diverts off the tract.

In your life you cannot recognize this kinda people. So it is better to make yourself and your mind firmly concentrated to your goal. Because

Prevention is better than cure.

Sometimes, you cannot get even a single chance to recover what you lost only due to this distraction. So beware !!!

When human beings start maturing, they start making a goal, an aim or an objective in their mind which they want to complete. But this ...

The Sands of Time

5/23/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

Here I have referred Time as "Sand" because its property is just like sand ... none can retain these in one's hand, it gradually slips away. So its very important and necessary to wisely use it before it goes away. It is truly said that "Time and Tide waits for none", if left wasted, it leaves people remorseful for wasting it.
Time is not a thing or material ... it is i think just a feeling which touches us and goes away every moment ... moment which is marked by the end of the other one. Nobody can stop it, nobody can can bring it back. The time which has gone is gone.
The three divisions of time ever made by humans are:
Past, Present and the Future.
Past is like a published book in which you cannot do any modification, Future is like a blank paper in which nothing is there, it is a sort of void and last but not at all the least is the PRESENT, these are the papers which are in our hands right now. We can modify it, make it in our own style and many thing can be done according to your wish. We cannot do anything for the mistakes done in the past, but many things can be done so that it never repeats in the future. These all things can be done in the present only.
So,

Be the good author of the book of present time, write it in your own way, keeping in mind about the errors in the past edition...

Here I have referred Time as "Sand" because its property is just like sand ... none can retain these in one's hand, it gra...

Where the mind Meets the End...

5/14/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

End is that necessary point which will definitely come and sometimes necessary also. In our day to day life, we come across many types of "ends", which may either be joyous or mournful. Here are two situations where we face "ends"...

There are many kind of people in this world, some like to do work, some are forced and some are stuck to their beds by the adhesive of laziness. Here I am going to tell about a feeling of the people who like and love working. Work can be of many kind, it should not be considered small or big. Good work of any kind contribute to the development of the society. So work is work. It should be done with dedication, so that once it is initiated, it can be finished perfectly, otherwise where goes the aim of doing that work? Now, I will talk about that point where the work is going to end. This point is associated with two types of feelings, first, the joy of completion and the second, the grief of ending. People who like working always feel upset when the particular work ends. So,

The ending of some work gives pain. But where the work itself gives pain, the ending gives relief.

Man is Mortal, they have to face their end some day. Now, everybody is aware of this fact, but fear the death. This means that they aren't able to accept this truth of life. But everybody wants that their end should be peaceful. When one approaches to his or her end, one realises that the life after death is peaceful that that of before. Here the end gives eternal joy, which is incomparable with any other kind of joy in this whole world. But when one comes to know that one's end is going to be very drastic, one does not ever wish to die. One starts begging for life.

In this way there are many ends and many of them we don't know. We face these daily, in each and every moment, but we do not feel it. Every new moment is associated with end of the other one. So end is everlasting,

Everything can end but end never ends...

End is the rule of the Universe, it is inevitable...

End is that necessary point which will definitely come and sometimes necessary also. In our day to day life, we come across many types ...

In the search of Happiness

4/17/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

In the world of today happiness has become a thing which is very difficult to find. People have become so self-centric that they do not bother to give and even share some happiness. People live in the world of theirs.

The life is like a whole range of mountains. It is very difficult to cross it without being happy. The reason is simple. We face difficulties in life and to cope with it we need courage and self confidence. Now think if we are sad and gloomy, how can we develop these essential things to cope with the difficulties of life. Therefore,

Happiness is the seed of the plant of every essential things needed to lead the life.

We human beings are blessed with an important component of happiness known as smile. A smile does a lot of things in life. It can sometimes make things possible which is never thought to be possible. It is the key to enter the heart of a person. It can sometimes pierce someone's 'stone like' heart.

Happiness brings smile, but sometimes a smile brings happiness.

So,

Be Happy Always...

In the world of today happiness has become a thing which is very difficult to find. People have become so self-centric that they do not both...

Pray the Almighty

3/21/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

When we find ourself in difficulties with nobody around us then the only support left to us is the god. The god on whom we trust that he will surely help us when we are in need of it. And according to our believe, the medium for calling the god is prayer. Most of us pray to the god when we are in difficulties, and when we get rid out of that we almost forget the him. This implies that most of us are selfish. We call the god when we need him and throws him out of our mind when the task is over. But have you ever thought that why he helps us again and again in spite of knowing that we will forget him? This is because he forgives us every time, he doesn't want anything in exchange. But things cannot go on like this. How can we be so ignorant? We all must be thankful to the god for everything, the clothes we wear, the home we live in, the food we eat and the biggest thing, the life he has given to us which is the most precious gift from him.

If we thank him when we get rid of difficulties and for all the things we have then he will surely bless us. We all need blessings because it gives us the energy to fight difficulties and face every challenge of life.

Now the question comes, what to pray to the god? We should not pray him to get rid of difficulties, we should always want the power to fight with it. This is because these difficulties are challenges which god himself put in our lives to grow ourself, our experience, our power. And one thing we must keep in our mind that we should not pray for ourself only, his other creatures also need blessings. So,

Do not be selfish and pray to him in every situation of life and for others also.

When we find ourself in difficulties with nobody around us then the only support left to us is the god. The god on whom we trust that he...

Life - A Hit and Trial

3/14/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

In your life you want many things and you try to achieve this, some of these you get and some you do not. Have you ever thought that why this happens, this is because this is one of the rules of life. You try and try to get what you want, but not every time you get it.

Life is a hit and trial, you do not know what will happen next, if you did know then everything would have become so much easy for you. So in many situations of life, you have just to take the step of trying, without knowing whether you that you will be successful in that attempt or not.

Many people think that what they try to achieve will surely be achieved by them, and say that this is their confidence. But in my opinion this is not at all confidence, this is something a step ahead of this, that is, over-confidence.

Some of us just settle down being tired after making one or two or some tries. They feel that they have no more energy, whether physical or mental, to make further attempts. Actually they do not understand that life has to go on, and if they do no more tries then, then how will their lives go on. Their lives will be like blank book in which you cannot find anything other than emptiness.

Failing in your trial doesn't mean that you will not attempt that try again.

So go on and make tries as much as you can make to achieve what you need to make your life beautiful, without even thinking about the result and the further attempts you have to make if you are not successful.

In your life you want many things and you try to achieve this, some of these you get and some you do not. Have you ever thought that why thi...

Simply be Simple

3/11/2010 Shayoni Majumder 2 Comments

Today the world has become very materialistic. It believes in show off. On everybody's face there is a mask of pretentiousness. Everyone has become ostentatious. There has come a bombast in everyone's nature. There is perhaps no reality, no originality left in this world.

The entire human race is going in a wrong direction. For example the common people are trying to imitate the celebrities and social elites, everybody has become a crazy fashion streak, and so on..... Nobody is stopping himself for a moment to think that is it wrong or right and where it can lead them to.

I think that this race to show off will never end. The more we run behind it, more it will go far from us. This is simply a maze in which if once trapped, it is very difficult to come out of it.

So it is better to keep oneself out of its reach. We human beings are very temptational. But this task is not so impossible.

Be simple.....simplicity has its own joy.

I am not against any good change in personality, but i think it is not right to show what you are not. Simply be what you are.

Some situations come in life where you have to pretend, this is an exceptional case when you are in some kind of obligation. Otherwise it is wise to be simple. So, choose if you want to be wise or not.

Today the world has become very materialistic. It believes in show off. On everybody's face there is a mask of pretentiousness. Everyone...

Competition

3/09/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

We human have the general tendency to be unique in some way. Some show this tendency and some do not. But we are not alone in this world. All want to attain some unique position, but it is not possible for everybody. So there is a heavy competition in every field of life. There is some sort of race everywhere and every in moment of life.But is this tendency of competition good for us? What can this competitive nature lead us to?

Competition is both good and bad for us. It is good because it helps us to move forward in our life. It provides with internal growth.

Iron on beating only attain a specific desired shape.

It helps us to grow our experiences, because it shows us many ups and downs of life. We face difficulties, and try to get out of this. Int this we we grow our skills too.Now let me focus on the other aspect too. Competition is good for us upto some specific extent. But when the desire to gain more and more grows, our competitive nature also grows. We become more and more ferocious. The tendency destruction grows more than that of creation. We do anything to achieve a particular position that we want. Ultimately this leads us to destruction.

Hence, all I can say is

Be competitive, but by remaining in the limits of
goodness.

We human have the general tendency to be unique in some way. Some show this tendency and some do not. But we are not alone in this world. Al...

What you can't get

3/05/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

Think of a life in which you have all the things which you want. Now answer yourself why you have to think it only, cannot it really happen!!! Actually you know the answer that it cannot happen, because you are aware of the fact that nobody in this world has got everything.

Human beings have longing dreams to get everything in their lives. But they get depressed when they do not get it. Knowing a fact is one thing and accepting it is other. Everybody knows that they cannot get what they want, but cannot accept this reality of life.

Sometimes we do not get what we deserve. This hurts us the most. This is because life is not so easy going, not so smooth. Actually if we get everything then life will be not like life. Every sorrow brings us a happiness. Do not think that god has snatched something from you, if you do not get something god gives you some other thing instead, only the thing is needed is to look around.

So be happy with what you have, because who can say that what you have right now you cannot be with that later also.

Think of a life in which you have all the things which you want. Now answer yourself why you have to think it only, cannot it really ha...

Desire

3/03/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Desire.........I think is the spark emerged in our mind which leads us to that destination of life where we wish we should be. People say that some desires are good, some are bad......... but I don't think so. Rather I think that some desires lead us to good destination........ and some to that destination where we must not be. Yes.......desires decide our destination. As we all are humans and all of us know we have unending desires and of course desires cannot be stopped from coming in our mind. So according to me...... these must be 'filtered'. We should allow only those desires to dominate our mind which we think is necessary to fulfill our dreams....... dreams which when are fulfilled are good for us. We should immediately block those desires which is not good at all, which can even cause harm to us or anybody else. And finally, some desires are partially good. We should allow only that part which is good. The desires allowed should be good for us, our well being and above all for the well being of the whole mankind.

If the spark is produced in the firewood it will serve good purposes like providing warmth, cooking, etc. And if it is produced to fire a house, it will damn sure do a lot of destruction......

Desire.........I think is the spark emerged in our mind which leads us to that destination of life where we wish we should be. People say th...

Unite All Powers

2/28/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

We have the storage of many immense powers. But we do not know how to use these all. So to make use of your powers you have to recognise it. Then only you can use it.

Our powers are scattered all over in us only, but where we do not know.

Small drops of water together makes an ocean.

We have these small drops of powers. All we need to do is to collect it and make it so strong like a shell so that no one can break it.

Up to this I have shared my views about uniting our own powers. But sometimes we do not have all the necessary powers, because nobody is complete in all respects, nobody has got all powers. So we have to look around us. Some powers needed to complete a task is also scattered in some people around us. We need other people too. We we unite our as well as others powers to complete one single goal then no one can stop you from achieving it. So,

Unity does great deeds.

We have the storage of many immense powers. But we do not know how to use these all. So to make use of your powers you have to recognise it....

Experiences

2/27/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

God has given life to us with a definite motto or goal and it is our duty to complete this goal. Our life does have a big goal that we do not know or just can imagine before achieving it and to achieve it we have to gain experiences, it is just like any video game which needs some points before completing the final aim :) .

Experiences teaches us many things which will help in different ways to complete your goal, your dream, your ambition. Each experience is just like a chapter in the big book of life. You have to go through each and every chapter to understand the final stage of the last chapter, the chapter of your goal.

Life brings us various types of experiences. Some of those we actually want and some we don't want but it has to be gained. Some experiences give us joy and satisfaction and some give sadness. But both types of experiences are necessary.

Rose have thorns on it, to hold the rose you may even have to feel the pain of the pricking of the thorns.

Experiences add to your mental and spiritual growth. Many of these can sometimes hurt you but at last you will get benefit out of this. These boost you up.

Everyday knowingly or unknowingly you are gaining many experiences. Experiences are everything that you learn. Even when you teach someone you are gaining experience, the experience of teaching that particular topic or matter. And in this learning procedure everyone around you is a teacher, whether your friends or your enemies.

So,

Never miss an opportunity to gain an experience, whether you want it or not, you deserve all of them which are offered to you by the all mighty.

God has given life to us with a definite motto or goal and it is our duty to complete this goal. Our life does have a big goal that we do no...

Enjoy Everything

2/26/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Life is very melancholic without enjoyment. So to get out of the boredom of life enjoyment is must. Often we have have to do some works which we do not want to do. Hence life becomes little bit boring. Here comes the importance of enjoyment.

Just like a knife can do its work better after sharpening only, enjoyment does the work of sharpening of your skills. It helps you do to your work with more efficiency. You feel refreshed after being enjoyed something. It provides you with relaxation.

But life sometimes doesn't allow you to enjoy it. But enjoyment is a thing that can be attained in everybody's own ways. So think of ways to enjoy. You will surely get it. 24 hours is the total time given to everybody in a day, to those who enjoy life and also to those who do not. It is up to you when and how you manage to enjoy.

Always remember,

If you aren't enjoying, you are leaving some gaps in the path of life, because you haven't done the most important work of enjoyment.

Life is very melancholic without enjoyment. So to get out of the boredom of life enjoyment is must. Often we have have to do some works whic...

Judgement of Humans

2/23/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

We all human beings are not the same, we are different in different ways. So it is very difficult to judge every human being, because each human being has his or her own views, and here is the point where the difficulty comes.

If you want to judge a person, the first necessity in you is that you should first place yourself in that person's position in which he or she is. Otherwise you will not be able to come out of your own views and thoughts. And judgment by you will be wrong. Putting yourself in that position means that you should make your mind like that person, should feel like that person, should understand all the circumstances in which he or she is present.

Many of us skips this first essential step and misinterpret a person. This is absolutely wrong, one should never do this. The steps after that is easy for judging.

One should judge one by one's deeds not one's outer appearance, or social status or anything irrelevant. Outer appearance never tells about the inner hidden qualities or even bad characteristics of a person. This mean of judging should not be used.

If we misjudge a person then, a day will come when we will find us faulty and no chance will be left for remorse. So even after judgment think over and over that if you are right.

Judgment of your decision should be prior to the judgment of anyone.

We all human beings are not the same, we are different in different ways. So it is very difficult to judge every human being, because each h...

A Change in Yourself

2/19/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Many things in life should always change with the shift of time. Change always brings a freshness in life. It does many great things.

Change is not only changing everything around you but also changing yourself, that is your attitude, your views, etc. People use to say that what they are what they are and they cannot change themselves. But if change isn't there how will their personality develop? Simply there is no logic behind this type of statements.

When human beings remain in their childhood stage, a change in every step of learning develops them towards adulthood. If at this stage the child's behaviour or habits hadn't had changed then what would have happened to our society? How could it develop? Child is a small plant and which if doesn't grow properly then the adult human tree will be incomplete in itself. Hence, it will have a bad impact on the forest of society. Therefore if no human beings bring a change in themselves then it affects the society.

Change is important to improve your personality, every good change makes you a civilised person. People begin to like your company. You will find more and more people around you. If I summarise then good change always have a good impact on you.

Change yourself, everything will automatically change.

Many things in life should always change with the shift of time. Change always brings a freshness in life. It does many great things. Chang...

Satisfaction

2/18/2010 Shayoni Majumder 1 Comments

The thing which most of the human beings do not get in their whole life is I think satisfaction. This is a thing which everybody wants and simply run towards it to achieve it but as they run towards it, it goes away from them.

It is not easy to achieve satisfaction. This is because of the natural human tendency of wanting more and more, more than what we deserve.

Some times come in our life when we feel happy, or we feel that everything is all right. Then after some time we begin to feel that everything is not fulfilled. We want more things to happen which will make us happier.

Now, there are many deeds and works which when done doesn't make people satisfied, like, for many people - making money - biggest thing which make people crazy, for a writer - writing a piece of literature, and for social workers - doing good for people.

In some instances of life satisfaction must be there and also there are some in which satisfaction should not be there at all.

Let us take the first case. It is said that

Everyone should feel satisfied with what they have.

God has not made everyone of us equal in all respects, whether in concern of wisdom, or intellect, or possessions or anything else. And everyone of us doesn't have the ability to accept this strong truth of life. Here is the point where grows the dissatisfaction. Satisfaction makes ones life very joyful, life becomes smoother. So to get these all everyone should remain satisfied with what they have. I know that it is not so easy but also it is not too difficult. For this we must have the tendency of compromising in the situations where it is required.

Now, what about the second case? It opposes the saying mentioned above. Life is a long journey which should not go in vain. So many things should be there which should not have boundaries, should not have limits, like knowledge, we should not be satisfied with what knowledge we have, we should grow it more and more, and like doing good to the mankind, this feeling dissatisfaction that what noble deeds we have done is not enough, only will serve the mankind.

Here, I conclude that

We should be satisfied with the things what we deserve and dissatisfied with what does something good with growth only.

The thing which most of the human beings do not get in their whole life is I think satisfaction. This is a thing which everybody wants and s...

Cooperation

2/15/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

We all human beings are like creepers, all need some support from others in some way, and others too need support from us, that is, we all need cooperation. In this world it is very difficult to live without it.

Cooperation is a thing that is needed even at the smallest level of life. Imagine what will happen if all the cell organelles stop cooperating with each other. Yes, all the biological systems will stop. Then what will happen to the earth's life? In this way cooperation is so much important not just for us, but for every organism on this earth.

It is not that only human beings need cooperation, all organisms need it. For some organisms, it is the only way for survival. For example take the tiny ants, I think they are the first ones which comes in my mind when talking about cooperation. Really hats off to them. These tiny intelligent creatures do what huge creatures like us can't do. By supporting each other they search food for them, carry stuffs which are far more heavier than them and build their shelter.

Cooperation can be of many types. In my view first one is when members of a group do something to achieve the same goal. Cooperation is this case is not only doing the same work by all the members but this also can be doing different works which leads them to their unique goal. The second type may be when an individual or some individuals work for the benefit for the whole group.

Nobody is perfect in all the respects. God has not given all sorts of qualities to everyone. Therefore one must cooperate with others. There are some vacuums in the qualities and abilities of everyone. So god has given qualities in some proportions in each one only to fill this vacuum.

So I think,

Cooperation is the greatest human quality one must possess in the world of today.

We all human beings are like creepers, all need some support from others in some way, and others too need support from us, that is, we...

Relationships

2/14/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

All of us are well known of the fact that we have come alone in this world and will surely go from here alone. But if god has blessed us life then we have to live it. But living a life solitarily is too difficult. So along with life god also gifts us some relations.

When we are born, our first relation establishes with our parents and our whole family. We do not have to make these relations, god makes these relations. We should be thankful to god that he has done so much for us before our birth !!! That is, he has decided that who will be our parents and our family.

When we grow and begin to interact with the outer world, that is, a world outside the family sphere, some relations establish or we have to establish some relations, like friends, teachers, lovers and so on... These relations provide us a company, a support and many things for living our life.

There are some relations which we do not want to make. Most of us will never like to make enemies. This is the only relation which corrodes us. Enemies never support us, they always have a malignant effect on us .In this way we have two types of enemies, first those whom we can directly call our enemies and second one are those who remain hidden to us, become our friends and in our absence do harm to us.

There are different types of feelings associated with different relations, and because we cannot define each feeling, we cannot name each relation too.

Relations are colourful as well as dark sides of life. Some relations are just a burden for us which we do not want to unload. Some relations break in some circumstances of life. In these situations the though the relation is ended, the feelings associated with it remains with us, and these feelings become a burden for us.

But really relations are relations. They will remain with us as long as we live in this world. So,

Enjoy all relations, they teach us many things and grow our experience...

All of us are well known of the fact that we have come alone in this world and will surely go from here alone. But if god has blessed us...

Moments

2/12/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Our life is a mixture of many moments, some we want to remember forever, and some we want to forget forever. The moments can be big or small, even for fraction of seconds.

Moments are I think the smallest unit of the big life. A moment can change the whole path of your life. A decision taken in even a small moment can change everything. Like small drops of water make a huge ocean, your ocean of life is also composed of these small drops of moments.

Some moments are so joyous that we want to preserve it like a precious pearl in the shell of our mind because they are very delicate. A moment of joy can make our whole life joyful just like a small duration of drizzle can make a dieing plant alive. These small moments of joy can keep many people alive, that is, people who are surrounded by the tempest of the ocean of their lives, these joyous moments, which have now become past happenings for them, keep them cheerful and let them go forward.

On the other hand, some moments are so bitter that we want it to throw away from our life. But moments are not some things, these are small time durations which are associated with feelings. Its not easy to throw them away. As I have told you life is a mixture of many types of moments. So we have to consider all the moments, including the bitter ones, as a part of our life.

Life is like a chain and moments are its part. So do not even try to throw away any moment from life, otherwise the continuous chain of life will be broken.

You can make your moments according to your wish also. Some people like to spend some moments in someones company or doing their favourite hobby or anything else. So go on and make the upcoming moments your...

Moments are very important to life...so don't miss it even for a moment.

Our life is a mixture of many moments, some we want to remember forever, and some we want to forget forever. The moments can be big or s...

Heaven Vs Hell

2/11/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

People say that both heaven and hell are exoteric to the earth , they have no connection with the earth, people go there after their death according to their deeds done on earth during their survival, who have done noble deeds go to heaven and those who have committed sins go to hell. Some even say that these do not exist at all. So what are these things? Are these fantasic places or some place in stories and tales or something else?

Well, I don't know whether people go there after their death or not, because they, who have died, know it better than us. So for us, what are Heaven and Hell and where these places are?

I think these places are not anywhere else, these are on earth only. Only our mind can decide which place on earth should be given what name.

As I have referred earlier that people who have done good deeds go to heaven. Why is this told so? This is because they get their reward for their deeds. So how this place may be? I think this could be a place where the soul gets peace, a place which the soul thinks is beautiful. So why this cannot be on earth. Beneath the shell of human bodies, there exists a soul. So if this soul thinks that some place on earth is beautiful, get peace over there, get some happiness by staying there, why this place cannot be called a Heaven !!!

On the other hand that place where our mind, our soul feels uneasy, thinks that the place isn't suitable for it and if anyhow it can get rid of that place, the place is nothing but the hell only. It is that place where the peace of mind gets out, all the goodness gets ruined, no good things remain at all.

Therefore, we can say that Hell and Heaven aren't any other worlds, these are two opposite wordly places which is dependent on the thinking of our mind, which one to call what.

We can find everything, even the hell and the heaven, around us only. The only necessary thing is to decide where is it.

People say that both heaven and hell are exoteric to the earth , they have no connection with the earth, people go there after their death a...

Miraculous Miracle

2/04/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

A word which says that anything which cannot happen is possible is........Miracle. I am aware of the fact that not everybody believe in this and I have no intention to make them believe.

The world in which we are living is very mysterious and the people by whom we are surrounded believe in only realistic things. So why this word have ever Miracle emerged? Is this because some of the people strongly believe that things which are not ever possible can happen or because of some other reason. My answer is no.............. Actually the worldly people are so much lost in themselves that they cannot look around them. They have shut their eyes and prevented themselves from seeing the miracles which is happening all around them. In fact we all are surrounded my miraculous things !!!

Now see us .......... that is we all human beings. How we evolved from some simple elements and compounds, and then from one unicellular to multicellular organisms, and through many forms, we are in the present form. Isn't this a miracle? See this whole universe.......how this came into being? Who created it? What is the main base of the whole universe by which it formed? All these are miracles.

Now people will say that they do not believe in miracle because they have scientific explanations.......if any question is unanswered they will say that science will find out the answer. I think they are overlooking something. You know what is that? They are overlooking the fact that science itself is a miracle !!!

Miracles cannot give any prove. Science is a field which proves every miracle. The ways, the technologies and everything which are used for any research, inventions, discoveries and all, if we go deeper and deeper, will make you conclude that Science is composed of miracles and hence is itself a miracle. Therefore,

Do not shut and prevent your eyes from seeing around yourself, because even when you blink number of miracles happen........

Miracles are not any sort of superstition.........it a fact, which many ignorant people aren't ready or able accept.

A word which says that anything which cannot happen is possible is........Miracle. I am aware of the fact that not everybody believe in ...

Encouragement - A Morale Booster

2/03/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Can you imagine a vehicle, which without using fuel, runs on the road? It may sound funny but I am serious. Can you imagine such type of vehicle? No.......... there cannot exist even one. So even a vehicle needs some stuff for running.

Similar is your life. Like your body needs food for being healthy, your spirit also needs something that can keep it high. You know what is that thing? It needs Encouragement........the fuel of the Spirit. Life has many ups and downs. In all upheavals of life the power of the spirit may get lowered. So is the need of encouragement.

Many people of different thoughts are around you. The people who are your near and dear to you, give you encouragement when you are in such a position where you need this. You can feel at that time how strongly you needed it. It solves most of your problem, because to face any problem in life the first thing you need is courage, which is of course provided by encouragement.

You can see many people around you who are in trouble, who don't have necessary courage for struggling. So you can, you should, you must give them encouragement. This is also equally important. Because

You should not only receive, also have the tendency to give........

Life may have such turns where you cannot find anyone to help you and give you encouragement. In all these circumstances you need Self-Encouragement. It is not as easy as receiving encouragement. But you strongly need it in many situations of life. For this you should always be optimistic. So you should

Never allow negative sources to dominate you, or even come to you.

Encouragement acts as a lubricant to your frictional path of you life. So never miss an opportunity when you get it, even when you have no problem. It keeps your spirit's 'battery' charged :) .

Can you imagine a vehicle, which without using fuel, runs on the road? It may sound funny but I am serious. Can you imagine such type of...

Decision Terminator-Confusion

2/02/2010 Shayoni Majumder 0 Comments

Life is a long journey. In this journey you have to decide many things, and the biggest hurdle in making any decisions, whether big or small, is Confusion. You can imagine how this little thing can stop you in this big journey. So will you or can you stop your journey? No.............you can't. Why this confusion creates in our mind? I think this is because many thoughts muddle up in our mind, especially when we have to take a strong decision. We think of the results, what people will think, reactions of people, and so on......... Actually what happens, we block our own thoughts and let other thoughts in our mind. But this should not happen when we decide something. The biggest possible solution to stop this confusion is

Always listen to your heart...........

But the decision of others also value. We should listen them also. This doesn't always prove to be wrong, sometimes comparing all decisions also helps us in making our own decision. Then most of the confusion will be automatically vanished. After this, judge the decision with your brain and implement it.

Clearing confusion is simple........but it is not so easy.

Life is a long journey. In this journey you have to decide many things, and the biggest hurdle in making any decisions, whether big or small...

Whats Life

2/01/2010 Shayoni Majumder 2 Comments

Nobody can give a perfect explanation or exact definition of life. So, what is life. To whom we can say has life. Can we say that the person has life because his heart is beating? For instance, can we say a person, who is in coma, has life? In my opinion this is not life, no not at all. Life is actually living it, experiencing what's inside it, whether difficulties or enjoyments.

Life is actually a mixture of various elements. These elements decide that how one's life is going to be. Different persons have different elements in different proportions. So now the question arises, what are these elements. No these are not the the elements of Chemistry :D . These are the ups and downs of life, all the experiences, all the tastes of life.....

Two categories of these elements are - sorrowfulness and happiness. One is dark side of life and the other one is the bright side.

Now what is sorrowfulness or sadness.... Well it is the situation which we feel is very unpleasant, which is not favourable to our state of mind. Some person exist there who cannot withstand this melancholy, and end their life. Which means that they are not able to withstand with one of the element of life. They do not understand that this is part and parcel of the life which they are going to end. This major element cannot be torn apart from life because life is not at all fulfilled without this. These sort of people do this just because they get this element in somewhat larger proportion. No.......this is not at all right. We don't have any right to destroy this precious gift of god. So accept this as a part of life.

Now how about the other element which, who the fool doesn't want. I am telling about happiness. For some people this is scattered all around them and for some this is just a dream, if they get it they think that they will get everything. Happiness is not just a word, it has many sparkling dimensions. Its meaning is different for different people. Happiness is, for instance, money for some, love for some, prosperity for some and things like this for some others. And of course there are some people for whom meaning of happiness is making others happy. This is because

It is easy to make others sad but much difficult to make others gratified.

So the conclusion is ........

Live life to the fullest because who can say whether god will give another chance to live it or not.

Nobody can give a perfect explanation or exact definition of life. So, what is life. To whom we can say has life. Can we say that the person...